If you knew two 'magic' words you could utter right now to get your ex to return your calls – would you utter them?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?...
The reason I am going to share this with you is because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers who, just like you, are trying to put their relationship back together.
So I am going to answer this question ... “How do I get my ex to speak to me directly, answer my calls, or reply to my emails or texts?”
BUT...
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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a COMPLETE strategy for this!
Magic of making Up
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
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So First: What You DON’T Say!
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Before we get into the actual magic words, let’s go over the messages that almost NEVER work.
and worse...
Which will also put you at an AWFUL 'psychological' disadvantage.
These usually fall into one of two categories.
The ‘BEG’ – where the message sounds like
"John, please, please, please call me. I beg you this is the 4th time I have called. Please speak to me.
And the ‘EMERGENCY’ –
"Cindy, this is URGENT! Please call me ASAP.
I really need to speak to you about something."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
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You Must Use CURIOSITY and SELF INTEREST
To Your Advantage
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The two things that all human beings can take advantage of
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here's the BIG SECRET!
Either one of these on its own can be extremely effective
But when you combine the two together you have a lethal ‘magic weapon’ to make your ex call back!
So...
Let's look at what you can say that is so powerful it works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a light and friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. Just a quick call to let
you know I appreciate what you did for me.
Call me because I would like to say thank you in person."
Can you see how that statement uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a nice friendly message
.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the
"Plan"...this means working out what
he/she did that must be appreciated.
It can be any thing big or small...but needs to
be plausible.
But more importantly...
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2nd WARNING!
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You must have an overall plan
like the examples in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
HERE
If you apply this method with no plan underlying it and they call you back, you can do more
DAMAGE and may end up in a worse situation, only because you did not handle things correctly!
Okay?
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than just getting them to return your call!
Makes sense, huh?
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